I too have had problems with the RDU archive; the five times I've tried finding audio of myself, I was not successful.
To answer your question: I think you were on the right track. The RDU feed covers four frequencies; 132.35, 125.3, 124.8, and 128.3. The feeder I believe prioritizes the feeds, so that if there are simultaneous transmissions, the one with higher priority is heard. I am assuming that whenever you were speaking, there was someone on a different, higher priority frequency speaking over you. The bulk of traffic out of RDU is to the north. Thus the northern frequency probably takes priority. It is also possible that some of the freqs. for the RDU feed are wrong; only the first two freqs. listed on this site are actually used as approach, so it's possible the feeder made a mistake with listing, but I don't know.